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Let me start off by saying that if you’re tempted to dispute me on any of this, don’t. I’ve spend many a day and night sorting this out. Once I even got so immersed (and/or high) I forgot what I was doing and wrote a poem about the first time I experienced sexual arousal. (Thank […]

Continuing the journey originally written for Throats to the Sky…. It’s been five full days since I last wrote of Sex Without Having Sex. It’s just that it’s so complicated! To give  my brain a break, I struck up a conversation with a friend about poetry. And soon, of course, I found myself wondering if […]

Note: The woman in the picture above is not me but it is an accurate representation of how I look when I’m doing science. I think I was on the wrong track when I thought it might be accomplished in dreams. I think that my dreams have been trying to tell me this by being […]

Back in May, I decided to use my quiet time (aka, Covid quarantine) to research the possibility of having sex without actually having sex. My findings were originally posted on Throats to the Sky. Sources utilized include my own mind and marijuana.  …. If I’m honest, yesterday’s revelations about sex without having sex (SWHS) were a bit […]

Back in May, I decided to use my quiet time (aka, Covid quarantine) to research the possibility of having sex without actually having sex. My findings were originally posted on Throats to the Sky. Sources utilized include my own mind and marijuana.  … Alright, Quarantine Sex Physicist Friends. Let’s continue. I’d planned to center today’s studies around […]

Back in May, I decided to use my quiet time (aka, Covid quarantine) to research the possibility of having sex without actually having sex. My findings were originally posted on Throats to the Sky. Sources utilized include my own mind and marijuana.  … Yesterday I decided that my life’s purpose is figuring out a way to have […]

Friend of Taboo, meet New York Toy Collective! This sex positive culture company crafts handmade silicone dildos, packers, and more! Allow me to spotlight a few of their products new at Taboo! The Love Bump is a rechargeable vibrating attachment that provides a second point of contact. Attach it to yourself, a toy, or keep it in hand! Say […]

Yesterday I walked across the University of Richmond campus with a tote bag of dildos slung over my shoulder. I’d parked my Toyota Scion, which is wrapped with an image of women’s bodies administering handcuffs and lubricant to one another, near the lake. I’d spent a lot of time at that lake as a kid. […]

It’s no secret that I’ve had a crush on a sex toy or two. I’ve romanced toys of all shapes and sizes. Clitoral stimulators, penetrators, and butt plugs have caught my fancy. The one type of toy I’ve never really fallen for is the Kegel exerciser. Kegel exercisers come in several forms but serve one […]

When legendary adult star Mr. Marcus and I come together, great things happen. If you missed our talks and times last year, you’ve gotta check it out. The fun didn’t stop there, though. See how Mr. Marcus’s dildo and I fared with the Remote Control Rabbit Ring, the Ride N Glide, and the Ultimate Couples Cage. […]